Monday, August 27, 2018

Arctic Hazards

Wearing her new threads like a boss

I will admit upfront:  this post has actually very little to do with any REAL Arctic hazards, of which there are many (especially this time of year).  They include ice, weather, wild animals... and, at this particular moment, they also include the ability to pull your spouse away for 2-3 weeks while you try and survive with your 1-month old.

Almost too cute for her own good, imho.
You heard right - I am currently pulling the old single-parent gig while Clark sails to the Northwest Passage to do some Arctic fieldwork.  I knew it was coming, but I honestly thought, right up until the very last minute, that fate would surely intervene and somehow keep Clark at home.  Nope. He's out steaming through the northern reaches of the ocean, having left almost a week ago.  If you're interested, you can follow the progress of the boat he's on, the Henry Larsen, here: Henry Larsen.

Just chillin'

I'm sure anyone who has ever read this blog is well aware of how much I really, really hate the solo parenting gig - and truly, to be doing it while not even fully recovered post-partum is more than a little ridiculous. BUT (and there is a big but), between Clark's logistical planning and our awesome families, it has so far been do-able. Case in point: my sister Faye (having flown in from Western Africa, mind you), is currently co-parenting with me, and the older kids are spending a couple of weeks with their grandparents in New Brunswick.  So, besides being just generally weepy from lack of sleep, I've been coping.

Juniper is SO anxious to be grown up, but still wears a crown while out and about on occasion, which makes my heart just about burst.
 Right now, Hazel will basically only really nap during the day while being worn, which makes it difficult to do much else (other than, for instance, go for a walk, which I do basically every day). The upshot of this means that the times that Faye wears Hazel, I turn into a whirling dervish.  I have cleaned the kids' rooms, pruned trees, sorted an overflowing desk, cleaned the fridge... like, we're talking major productivity. "Tara", you might say, "why not NAP during those rare moments of time when you aren't carting around your newborn?"  Because, my friends, napping is not a superpower that I possess.  I'm a terrible napper.  It makes this whole thing much harder, let me assure you. 

"I will not be put down for a nap, minions!" (I think her authority comes from those massively chubby cheeks)
Anyway, we've got one week down, and at least one more week to go (Clark is scheduled to come back on the 1st, but the Arctic travel gods enjoy laughing at all your well-laid plans and expectations).  I think that likely I'll emerge at the other end mostly intact. We shall see.  In the meantime, here's a catch-up from the last couple of weeks:

Hanging out at Gus (the tortoise)'s 96th birthday celebration at the Museum of Natural History

Close up on Ms. Crazy Hair.
This was from the day Clark decreed that we all needed to get out of the house, as it was pouring rain and we were going stir-crazy, so we drove to this big moose, and endured a very unhappy, screaming baby on the way there and back.  But at least we got a picture!

When she's NOT in the car, however (and when it's not between 8-11pm), Hazel is typically a very happy little girl!
Looking very Simmonds
Contemplative Blue Steel...
... and a hilarious joke!
Hazel's official one month old shot.  Super baby!
And another with her siblings, of course!
How adorable is this face?
Almost as adorable as this one, I'd say!

Faye arrives!
Faye brought ashobi (matching hand-tailored clothes) for the kids from Sierra Leone

Hazel and Mary gab it up
What was happening on the other side of the room

We got to see Janie on her Maritime trip!
We also got to hang out with Merrick and Elsie (and Eddy and Beckie)  at the Discovery Centre, as they were ALSO visiting the weekend before Clark left!
Faye, taking her niece-sitting duties very seriously (side-note: this exercise ball is, no exaggeration, the key to calming success multiple times a day. Just not typically with a beer in hand!)

The whole crew before mom and dad took the older kids to New Brunswick

Linden harvested his carefully-grown garlic before they left...

Mid-harvst

Juniper helps out

Displaying the whole haul

Artfully hung in the window to dry


 And finally...
Hazel does NOT enjoy consulting while Faye works from home

Wish us luck in the week(s) to come!  The one saving grace is I will never be in this position again, right?  That was my mantra during labour as well :)

Wednesday, August 1, 2018

The early days



Crazy hair, don't care.
As of yesterday, we are officially three weeks into this whole "life with a newborn" gig.  Seems as though it is high time for a blog post, right?  As you might imagine, most of these early days have had a new "first" of one sort or another... first outing as a family of five, first bath, first time meeting friends and family... the list goes on and on.  And as much as possible, I've been taking pictures as we go.

Clearly I don't get tired of these siblings photos

As of right now, we are also dealing with an unpleasant first - Hazel's first cold. Three guesses as to who generously bestowed it upon her. (Hint: a six-year-old who, despite being reminded 5 kajillion times a day to not touch every god forsaken surface, to catch his sneezes and coughs, and to wash his hands, still forgets now and again).  Anyway, besides that, and the general hazy fog of exhaustion that Clark and I have been muddling through, I have to say things are mostly pretty great.   As a personal example, I feel like a brand new person post-pregnancy, and have gotten out for a nice woods walk almost every day, mostly wearing Hazel.  You can't imagine how good that feels! I basically just didn't move for the 9 months leading up to that, which isn't good for mind or body.
Out for a walk along the Halifax waterfront.

Also, though I would have told you that Hazel was a dead ringer for baby Juniper in  the first days, I have to say she has morphed nicely into her own little person since then.  And what's more, I see a whole lot of Simmonds, which is nice!  This could be a direct correlation with the amount of chub she's been putting on... she was 8 lbs 14 oz at birth, 9 lbs 3 oz at her one week check-in, and a whopping 10 lbs 6 oz at her two week check-in.  Like, we're talking a whole pound in one week. Magic milk, no doubt!

Plotting something or other in her sleep
Anyway, on to the large collection of pictures - no one can accuse me of neglecting to take photos of my third child! 


Our first walk as a family of five.  This was only a few days postpartum, and while it felt amazing, I was sooooo sore afterwards.

Close up of Hazel in the stroller, chillaxin'.

All tucked up
Though we have been figuring things out as just a family of five for awhile now, we got Theresa for almost an entire week after my mom left, which was amazing.  She kept the kids entertained (by taking them on adventures, but also by being a drill sergeant and getting them to do a tonne of chores!), and she also got a first-hand preview of early newborn days.  She's due in less than a month now, so it was some good hands-on experience!

  Always happy to hold Hazel...
... or walk around with her...
... or have a little outdoor time.
Older cousin hanging out on  top of (soon to be) younger cousin!

One of the chores Theresa had them doing:  cooking! (as well as vacuuming, mopping, laundry... it was intense!)

But it wasn't all work, work work... playing boardgames in the sunroom

One thing we've been trying to do is getting outside as much as possible.  This is not as easy as it sounds -- not because Hazel makes it difficult, but rather because of the intense heat and humidity we've been having.  We get around it by choosing appropriate times of day, shady locales, and (more often than not) incorporating a swim as well.  We are VERY lucky to live within a short walking/biking distance of some very refreshing lakes, and have been taking advantage.  Hazel and I haven't been in yet, but maybe one day soon!

Naked in the ring sling

Checking out the bullfrogs at Point Pleasant Park

An incredibly cool beetle that Linden befriended.  We convinced him to let it go, but Linden still sadly talks about missing it.

Perhaps our favourite swimming hole: Oathill Lake
Pure, refreshed happiness
Linden, having just stubbed his toe after refusing to wear his sandals in the water. 

What Hazel and I do while the others are swimming. We are loving this Boba wrap from Carroll and Steve!

Look what I found! I felt a little voyeuristic taking a photo, but it was pretty cool!

It's been so hot and humid, Hazel's been getting a bunch of baths - otherwise it's very difficult to keep up with the goo that accumulates in the creases.

First ever bath. Hazel works her bath pose.
Subsequent baths - the kids now get to help out if they want.

Linden's a very keen helper!

We haven't had a whole lot of visitors yet, and to be honest, I wasn't completely on the ball about taking photos of all the visitors we had. But here are a few!

Will gets some snuggle time...
... and introduces Hazel to Sylvie and Eva

Carroll also got some good snuggles
In the midst of all the Hazel newness, we also threw a grand bash for Juniper's 9th birthday.  It would have been very tempting to just quietly have a bit of cake and call it a day, but birthdays are very important at this particular stage - Juniper started talking about hers about 6 months ago. We had it at the house, and it was actually quite fun, though it took a wee bit of  prep work.  For instance, I made 13 tote bags (out of the leftover canvas from the teepee), as tote bag decorating was one of the major activities.  They weren't difficult to make, but man, they took a lot of time when you also have a two-week old to contend with.  Then there was the cake - Juniper specifically wanted a homemade ice cream cake, which of course took more forethought and assembly than your run-of-the-mill birthday cake.  But in the end it was actually a blessing - it has just been way too hot to think about running the oven for any length of time.
Clark and Linden prep pin-the-tail-on-the-horse

The cake
Decorating tote bags
Trying to pin the tail
When Hazel woke up momentarily, she became the hit of the party!

Juniper, sporting her birthday "silky robe" (specifically requested). Also, she's drinking tea from the teapot Linden gifted her.

Besides a rocking party, there was also a surprise last-minute visit from Bill and Barb (Grandma and Grandpa), who got to meet Hazel for the first time, AND celebrate Juniper.  Win-win!

Grandma holds Hazel for our first family dinner out
Grandpa and Hazel get acquanited
Group shot!
And finally, here is a mish-mash of random moments from the last few weeks.  

Dad-pro: hanging with Hazel and catching up on the New Yorker

Juniper and I keep Hazel entertained in the van while Clark runs an errand

She posed herself for this shot!

Sporting the beautiful dress made for her by her great-aunt Evelyn

Juniper wanted me to take a picture of her walking with Hazel - a big priviledge as far as she was concerned

When your diaper matches your cute little dress, a photoshoot needs to happen

Two sisters

Close-up

Trying to multitask

Linden has been very keen to harvest the raspberries this year. We've gotten a great haul!

Juniper and Hazel on Juniper's party day 

Baby smiles!

Hanging with dad

Look at those cheeks!

Little Miss Alert - sometimes she seems so much older than 3 weeks

Post-bath

On Juniper's actual birthday, we went on a lovely walk at Hemlock Ravine

Intrepid explorers
Clark and the kids create a bow and arrow (while Hazel and I went on a super epic hike)

Biiiiggggg stretch

And finally... look who lost his first tooth!
 Phew.  That's enough of an update for one post!  See you next time!